* When your favorite music is not longer your favorite, or even worst nor your favorite, nor the worst, but simply empty...
The other day, tired from my everyday activities, of my reality, ... I went out for a walk, as in the stepping out of my usual space/place where I live and work, I would have stpped into a new world ...
While walking, escaping ... I found myself switching from song to song, going throughout the various types of music I got from jazz, to pop and rock passing through mexican traditional music. I tried to increase the volume, but nothing good came out from doing that, I had a feeling of despair, a need for salvation from my every-day suffocation ... None of my trials made me feel satisfied, neither good nor peaceful, none... I screamed out inside myself with such despair, but no-one could hear, no-one. Then, I looked up to the sky and I pray for salvation.
*The wish ...
I wished my whole life has not turned out like that. Although, I manage to keep my self clinging from this my reality, I sometimes, I should say lately most of the times, I feel exhausted, and I think there is absolutely no need for me to stay in here.
*The lie ...
I am an artifice of happiness ... it is how I have managed the last year an a half, I craft happiness out of diets, exercise and even friends ... I play with my thresholds of hunger/satisfaction, tiredness/energy, solitude/friends, I am a sort of epicurean ... I live in austerity so that the day I I eat cheese, drink wine and gather with friends is the best day ever ...
Yes, ... swallows of light to make my life alive or... to keep the lie alive...
*What Maslow would say ...
This is only because I have listen that music just ... too much, so that, I had crossed over that thin line that makes something goes from pleasant to boring ... that I am indeed a needing-need being... looking up for something else different, to make it my new need and to place it over the top of my always tall pyramid of needs, or what Maslow would call
hierarchy of needs.
* Bound to reach out the top ... or to cirlce ?
We always want more, but in the want more, what I think ... is tthat we definitely loose ground of what and more importantly how much of that
good can gives us pleasure. We all know the popular saying "It is not
quantity but the quality what it matters", I would say that both
definitely matter, even the finest chocolate cake can be unpleasant
after 10 plates of it. Or the other way around, even the smallest and
more horrible pizza can taste like heaven after a long diet of veggies.
Ten years ago after reading the alchemist I decided to enterprise my self in the looking of my treasure, not even knowing what my treasure was ... is, I undertook an adventure that had lasted nearly 10 years. First Canada then Japan
I look back then and now, and I cannot avoid thinking whether this is what I really want. I guess at some point I really wanted it, because I had it all, my family, a good job, good friends, what to eat, where to sleep, the love of a man ... I had it all, but I wanted "more", so I parted ...
Ten years down the line, I realized that back then I never knew of thresholds, scarcity or excess ... I never knew of loneliness or solitude (how I like to call it in my best days); I never knew of what was to be a foreigner in a place where I cannot speak the language, and although I have learned so many things of that beautiful way of the traditional Japanese unspoken language, there are some things that I do not understand and I think I never will, but what is worst, it is the feeling of not belonging ... and make me feel unhappy. I came to discover than in life what really matters is people around me, my experience left me to recognize that I need people at least to say hello, good morning, give a smile and feel reciprocated. People is what it matters ..., and if I had to live this to understand it, then it was worth.
-ec